
| Location | Marbella, Spain |
| Age | 4 days |
| Date of Birth | 30/08/2006 |
| Date of Death | 03/09/2006 |
| Visitors | 5,236 since 08/11/2006 |
| Creator |
My Shadha, Our Shadha, Your Shadha
Our beautiful daughter, our baby girl born on the 30th August 2006 who sadly passed away 4 days
later......
Some say that our lives, our achievements, all the good things and bad things that happen in this
crazy world of ours are written, mapped out for us, it is a destiny, a path that we follow.
If this is true then we have no words for the author of the past week.
Everyone in life is so special to me and Donna and we know we do not always show it but we love each
and everyone one of you as much as we possibly can. Take care of your families, your friends and
most importantly your children they are truly god’s gift. In the short time that we knew our
daughter, Shadha, a bond was forged that will stay with us forever.
Shadha’s Prayer
Do not stand at my side and weep,
I am not there, I do not sleep.
Shadha is a thousand winds that blow.
Shadha is the diamond glint on snow.
Shadha is the sunlight on ripened grain.
She is the gentle autumn rain.
When you wake in the morning hush,
She will be the swift, uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circling flight.
Our daughter is the soft starlight at night.
Do not stand at my side and cry.
I am not there, I did not die!
To our darling daughter Shadha,
You came into our world early and you left it the same.
You were the most precious thing in our lives for those special few days, you looked so healthy, so
beautiful and so strong, but our world proved too much for you, and now you are gone.
Now we know you are not suffering and hope you rest well, be strong and ready precious one, go begin
your new life without us, we will always be there holding your hand.
We will miss taking you home, taking care of you, watching you grow, introducing you to family, to
friends, taking you for walks, playing with the dogs, teaching you to swim, building sand castles on
the beach, seeing your first steps, first day at school, showing you our world, there’s so much we
wanted to do.
You are supposed to break our hearts when you achieve special things in your life, but you have done
it so early. Don’t worry my darling we will heel, knowing you are safe and with us always.
So few words, but such a short life, god bless our darling daughter every single night.
You will be in all our hearts for eternity, never will a day go by when you are not there in our
thoughts and we know you will be watching over us too, save a special place for us and wait, we will
be with you soon.
Most of all Shadha, we would like to thank you for your parting kiss it will stay with us for the
rest of our life until we meet in the next.
With all our love forever and eternity, goodnight and god bless
from Mummy and Daddy
XXXXXXXX
To Family and Friends
Our thanks and best wishes go out to everyone who offered their words of encouragement after the
birth of our daughter, and to the support and sympathy we have received since the day she left.
There were prayers said for Shadha all over the world, friends near and far and from differing
religions praying for her life, everyone did everything in their power to make this work, but alas
it was not to be, but our heartfelt thanks to all of you.
With all our love to you all,
from Donna, Kevin and Shadha
Doctors and Nurses
A special thanks goes out to all the doctors and nurses at the Costa del Sol Hospital in Marbella
and to the team at the Materno Infantil in Malaga.
These people did everything in their powers to firstly try and stop the early birth of our daughter
and then afterwards took every care of Shadha in order to stabilise her, we thank them for the time
we did have and their constant battle to make good.
God bless our baby daughter Shadha, born on the 30th August 2006 and in our hearts for all
eternity.
To Our Darling Daughter Shadha
We thought of you with love today
But that is nothing new
We thought about you yesterday
And the day before that too
We think of you in silence
And often speak your name
All we have are memories
And your footprints in a frame
Your memory is our keepsake
With which we'll never part
God has you in his keeping
We have you in our hearts
With all our love for ever and ever
Mummy & Daddy xxxx
Our Darling Shadha
Shadha, now is the time we should have been eagerly awaiting your arrival, but you were born too soon and although you put up a fight you just weren't strong enough to make it.Instead you are playing with the Angels and we are sure there will be somebody up there giving you a guiding hand in everything you do. You will always be our Bright Little Star and we are sure you will be shining down on all those who love and miss you. God Bless Darling.
So sorry to hear of your sad loss. Our deepest sympathy's to you and Kevin. Our thought are with you both.
Kindest Regards
Andy & Ulenah
Thinking of you....
I read Shadha's journey with tears as my heart breaks for you.
My beautiful little girl was born prematurely in June 06 & survived a very precious 3 days.
My heart goes out to you all as a family, love to you all...
ellamaegleed-memory-of.com
We're so sorry for your loss. It's hard to find any words of comfort, we deeply feel for you. Rely on each other, stay close to one another and embrace all the feelings with the support of family and all the loved ones around you.
Our thoughts are with you all the time,
Joni & Riikka
Brendan and I were very sorry to hear of the sad loss of your baby recently.
I hope, physically, you are recovering but I'm sure you'll never quite recover from such a loss. Our best wishes go to you and your husband and your families at this time.
We are so sorry to hear of your sad loss of your little girl Shadha. We are thinking about you and your family at this difficult time. Some friends of ours suffered a similar loss a few months ago so we know it's not easy.
Do take care of yourselves and we will see you soon when we come over.
Regards
Val and Roger
Sending hugs at this sad time
I'm so sorry to hear of the loss of your little girl Shadha. Nothing on this earth can prepare us for the heartache of losing our hopes and dreams. I lost my little girl Kayla in Dec 05, she died aged 7 days, after being born too soon due to pre-eclampsia. Her website is www.kayla-walters.memory-of.com. My heart goes out to you and your family.
From a mummy who understands,
All my love,
Jane x
Dear Donna and Kevin,
Graham and I just wanted to say how much we are thinking of you and how desperately sorry we are that little Shadha died. There’s nothing we can say or do to ease the hurt and pain you are going through right now but somehow or another we do get through it in time, you don’t get over it you just learn to cope.
Our love to you both,
Sue and Graham xx
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