| Location | Marbella, Spain |
| Age | 4 days |
| Date of Birth | 30/08/2006 |
| Date of Death | 03/09/2006 |
| Visitors | 8,319 since 08/11/2006 |
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My Shadha, Our Shadha, Your Shadha
Our beautiful daughter, our baby girl born on the 30th August 2006 who sadly passed away 4 days later......
Some say that our lives, our achievements, all the good things and bad things that happen in this crazy world of ours are written, mapped out for us, it is a destiny, a path that we follow.
If this is true then we have no words for the author of the past week.
Everyone in life is so special to me and Donna and we know we do not always show it but we love each and everyone one of you as much as we possibly can. Take care of your families, your friends and most importantly your children they are truly god’s gift. In the short time that we knew our daughter, Shadha, a bond was forged that will stay with us forever.
Shadha’s Prayer
Do not stand at my side and weep,
I am not there, I do not sleep.
Shadha is a thousand winds that blow.
Shadha is the diamond glint on snow.
Shadha is the sunlight on ripened grain.
She is the gentle autumn rain.
When you wake in the morning hush,
She will be the swift, uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circling flight.
Our daughter is the soft starlight at night.
Do not stand at my side and cry.
I am not there, I did not die!
To our darling daughter Shadha,
You came into our world early and you left it the same.
You were the most precious thing in our lives for those special few days, you looked so healthy, so beautiful and so strong, but our world proved too much for you, and now you are gone.
Now we know you are not suffering and hope you rest well, be strong and ready precious one, go begin your new life without us, we will always be there holding your hand.
We will miss taking you home, taking care of you, watching you grow, introducing you to family, to friends, taking you for walks, playing with the dogs, teaching you to swim, building sand castles on the beach, seeing your first steps, first day at school, showing you our world, there’s so much we wanted to do.
You are supposed to break our hearts when you achieve special things in your life, but you have done it so early. Don’t worry my darling we will heel, knowing you are safe and with us always.
So few words, but such a short life, god bless our darling daughter every single night.
You will be in all our hearts for eternity, never will a day go by when you are not there in our thoughts and we know you will be watching over us too, save a special place for us and wait, we will be with you soon.
Most of all Shadha, we would like to thank you for your parting kiss it will stay with us for the rest of our life until we meet in the next.
With all our love forever and eternity, goodnight and god bless
from Mummy and Daddy
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To Family and Friends
Our thanks and best wishes go out to everyone who offered their words of encouragement after the birth of our daughter, and to the support and sympathy we have received since the day she left.
There were prayers said for Shadha all over the world, friends near and far and from differing religions praying for her life, everyone did everything in their power to make this work, but alas it was not to be, but our heartfelt thanks to all of you.
With all our love to you all,
from Donna, Kevin and Shadha
Doctors and Nurses
A special thanks goes out to all the doctors and nurses at the Costa del Sol Hospital in Marbella and to the team at the Materno Infantil in Malaga.
These people did everything in their powers to firstly try and stop the early birth of our daughter and then afterwards took every care of Shadha in order to stabilise her, we thank them for the time we did have and their constant battle to make good.
God bless our baby daughter Shadha, born on the 30th August 2006 and in our hearts for all eternity.
Donna & Kevin,
We are very shocked and saddened by your tragic loss, we would like to express our condolences to you both at this very sad time.
Our thoughts are with you at this very difficult time.
Geoff and Nicki.
A special message sent the day after Shadha's service
Dear Donna and Kevin
I just wanted to drop you a line after to tell you how overwhelmed we felt at seeing you both yesterday coping with your grief.
We thought that you handled yourselves with extreme dignity and your closeness and support of each other was so touching I know that you both have the stregnth to pull through this.
Over the years seeing you with our boys i know that you are going to make wonderful parents, we have always thought that and still feel the same.
Shadhas passing away and seeing you both yesterday has stirred up feelings inside us that has made us realise that we cannot take our children for granted and how short life can be.
I felt the breeze pick up last night and thought of Shadha and you both and hope that soon you will hold a child in your arms again.
I wont say if you need me call because i know that you wont so i will call you.
Our love and thoughts with you always
Michelle, Keith and boys
i am so sorry
I am so sorry for your loss of your daughter Shadha (what a beautiful name) I lost my daughter at 4 days old they sy that time is a healer well they lie i lost my dughter on 4 january 06 and the days get more bareable but not easier, you learn to live with it but the anger and hurt inside will never leave me.
I hope you are all being dtrong for each other.
All my thoughts and prayers are with you all
Lynette xx
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